{"id":77,"date":"2005-09-30T17:30:50","date_gmt":"2005-10-01T00:30:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/?p=77"},"modified":"2005-09-30T17:30:50","modified_gmt":"2005-10-01T00:30:50","slug":"a-crappy-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/?p=77","title":{"rendered":"A Crappy Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You know, some days the sun shines here in NW Ohio but the day stinks anyway.  Got word this morning that a senior at our local high school was killed in a car wreck &#8211; pulled out in front of a semi and killed instantly.  Being a local pastor, I was called into the school to help the grief counseling team and being a band dad (I help transport the marching band instruments, do set up, etc&#8230;) and she was in the band, I spent time there.   To make matters worse, we had a similar accident last year about the same time, and another girl was kllled.  She was a member of our youth group, a senior, very active.  <\/p>\n<p>Needless to say, the school is stunned,  and kids are asking all the usual questions:  why did God &#8220;take&#8221; her, what if she hadn&#8217;t been driving along, I didn&#8217;t know her so should I feel sad,&#8230; you may know what I&#8217;m talking about.  After a day of grief counseling and talking with my own son, I&#8217;m just a little drained and distracted from what I had planned for this weekend&#8217;s podcast.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to take a turn in our wanderings for the next podcast and do one aimed dealing with teenage loss and grief as a resource for our local kids.  Not all are &#8220;church kids&#8221;, not all feel comfortable going to a pastor and asking weird questions, venting anger, questioning God.  So I&#8217;m going to go that direction.<\/p>\n<p>Bear with me our situation up here and I hope you find it helpful in deal with the grief you experience or try to help others with.<\/p>\n<p>Do not fear &#8211; I&#8217;ll get back to our next postmodern community, a Christian postmodern community that I think you will find very interesting.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You know, some days the sun shines here in NW Ohio but the day stinks anyway. Got word this morning that a senior at our local high school was killed in a car wreck &#8211; pulled out in front of a semi and killed instantly. Being a local pastor, I was called into the school [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-death-and-dying","category-wandering"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=77"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=77"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=77"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wiredjesus.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=77"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}